4 TO DO’s INSTEAD OF IGNORING A GIRL

The worst thing you can possibly do to mess up your life is by following advice that you shouldn’t have. Yet, this is exactly what most guys do when they play hard to get. It’s ladies who are suppose to play hard to get, appealing to a man’s natural desire for change and competition.

APPROACH HER.

Here’s a question, have you even spoken to your crush? It is safe to think this is ridiculous, there are men who lurk around women they could potentially be with but fail to approach them, make their intentions known and still wonder why they haven’t grabbed yet. An advice to pursue a relationship or not may very much depend on the person of interest, it is much easier not to approach a person you’re drawn to for fear of being rejected than it is to actually make your intentions known.

GO ON A DATE.

Here’s a follow up to the first question. Have you actually asked your crush out on a date? If not, then there’s your problem right there. If you don’t have the guts to ask her out then why should she even be interested in you? Girls want guys who have some balls, not cowards who wait around trying to psychically will a woman into falling for them. If you ignore an attractive woman, she’s just going to move on to a man who is willing to put himself out there and go after what he wants. So, stop ignoring the girl you’ve got your eyes on and pretending like you’re doing something productive with your life. Don’t worry, women aren’t going to leave you high and dry. They are actually here to show you what you can do to improve your love life.

GET YOUR MIND OFF HER.

Most guys develop an unhealthy level of obsession for women they’ve never spoken to. If you spend your day and night fixated on a girl, you’re going to have a hard time interacting with her like a human being. Romantic comedies may play off a guy stalking a girl as “cute”, but in the real world its sad at best and a criminal offense at worst. Unless you are super attractive, you wouldn’t be reading this. Don’t allow the mere thought of her to control your life, learn to enjoy life even when she’s the one ignoring you.

INDULGE IN EXTREME EXCITEMENTS.

If you look like you’re having a good time she’s going to want to get to know you. When she’s interested, she’ll look at you. When you get that signal, you need to walk up, start talking, and move towards that first date. Even if she never looks your way at least, you’ll be enjoying yourself rather than sulking and as long as you keep enjoying yourself eventually, a girl will come along.  

Photos: 2012 Think Like A Man.